Neil Hertenstein

In Loving Memory

Neil Hertenstein

Neil Hertenstein, beloved husband, father, grandfather, relative, and friend, passed peacefully into the Spirit World on September 5, 2026, surrounded by the love of his family. He was 83 years old.

Neil was a man of quiet strength, kindness, integrity, and unwavering devotion to those he loved. Throughout his life, he approached both joy and adversity with courage, humility, and determination. He will be remembered for his warm smile, generous heart, gentle spirit, and the countless ways he enriched the lives of family and friends.

Neil shared a loving marriage with his devoted wife, Bertha Leiser (professionally known as Billie Topa Tate). Together they built a life centered on love, faith, friendship, and caring for others. Their bond was one of deep respect, laughter, and unwavering commitment.

Neil was a proud and loving father to his children:

Monique

Mark

Lori

He treasured his family and was happiest when spending time with those he loved. His guidance, wisdom, and quiet encouragement will remain with them always.

Neil is also survived by his extended family, relatives, cherished friends, neighbors, and all whose lives were touched by his kindness and generosity.

Neil’s life reflected perseverance and compassion. Even during significant health challenges over the past several years, he remained grateful for the love surrounding him and appreciated every kindness shown by family, friends, and his medical team.

His family finds comfort knowing that love never ends and that his gentle spirit will continue to guide those who loved him.

A Blessing Ceremony - Celebration of Neil’s Life

Family and friends are warmly invited to gather in remembrance and celebration of Neil’s life through a Native American blessing and memorial ceremony honoring his journey into the Spirit World.

Friday, October 9, 2026

5:30 PM CST

MSI Wellness Center

2144 Ashland Avenue

Evanston, Illinois

In-person and online attendance are welcome.

In Lieu of Flowers

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Neil’s memory are sincerely appreciated to assist with the extensive medical expenses incurred during his courageous health journey.

One of his quotes that he often shared throughout his life was “forgive yourself for not doing what only time could teach. “

Sincerely

Bertha Leiser, Neil Hertenstein’s wife